
We all have different kind of people in our life we consider as friends. But then recently there has been a trend going on about real friends and fake friends. You visit people's walls on social media and they are like "shout to to my fake friends, i see you all fake friends, i hate y'all fake friends and so on". It will actually shock the extent people can go to write about fake friends and real friends, and sometimes I'm like really( must you do this?). For me I don't believe in that, I don't think there are real friends and fake friends. A friend is a friend. Friendship is all about trusting , loving, helping, supporting each other and at times being crazy together. Friendship is when people know all about you but love and care for you anyway. Friends wish you well, pray for you, encourage you, hope for your success, and even though they are so bad at showing that they care, you know they do care.
If you have someone in the life who does not support you, nor care about you, hate behind you, and even go to the extreme of destroying what you've built( yeah some do that) being it reputation or your work, in fact anybody who intentionally hurts you is NOT YOUR FRIEND, PERIOD!!!!! There's nothing like a fake friend, if that person doesn't have your good intentions at heart, dear that person is not a friend sorry.
And if the person was a friend before jealousy and hate took over, then let that friend go rather than tagging him/her as a fake friend. My friend is supposed to have my back and love me, but if you can't do that then you got to go. Don't let anyone think they are irreplaceable in your life. We are growing and we need positiveness around us, send the bad energy away and trust me life will be very enjoyable.
I came across a piece from inspirational quotes and it says "it is important to make friendships that are deeper than gossiping, drinking and hanging out.make friends you can have deep conversations with. make friends you can cry, make friends who support your life goals and finally make friends who believe in you". After all life is better with great friends.
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